Changing Afghanistan One Child At A Time by Terry Cardwell

Children Holiday Greetings

In late 2004 I heard about a young Afghan woman, Andeisha Farid, who had started an orphanage with the goal of raising the next generation of Afghan citizens to be strong, productive, thoughtful members of society. Girls and boys would be taught tolerance, respect for diversity, respect for the rights of others and strong values of integrity, honesty and caring with educational programs that extended well beyond the public school system. I immediately knew this was an organization that I wanted to be a part of and began sponsoring three children.

Two years after beginning my sponsorship, I met the Afghan woman leading the Afghanistan Child Education and Care Organization (AFCECO, I was so impressed with her work that I considered sponsoring a new AFCECO orphanage. Before doing so the financial collapse occurred in October 2008 and I became concerned that I should save my money versus spending it to start an orphanage so far away. At Christmas Eve service that year I prayed for a sign to help me decide what to do. On Christmas morning I received an email with a Christmas greeting from AFCECO that included a photo of some of the children holding a sign wishing me a Merry Christmas. I took this as MY sign and immediately contacted AFCECO. I have since sponsored a second orphanage.

My heart will always be with the three individuals that I began this journey with. Over the years we exchanged letters/photos, and spoke over Skype. I watched them grow from young children into adults that live the values defined in AFCECO’s vision. I am proud to say that one graduated high school and is working to provide for his family, the second is a Junior at University majoring in Biology and the third is a young woman who upon graduating high school spent a year teaching the children in her remote village per the request of the tribal elders. She is now happily married and both she and her husband are attending University. So many of the AFCECO children have similar stories full of tragedy and adversity as well as inspiration and hope for the future. Each of the AFCECO children and its founder inspire me everyday to continue my involvement.

I cannot express the impact that being a part of the AFCECO family has had on my life. My heart continues to break for the challenges and adversity facing the Afghan people but it is also full of joy for being part of an amazing organization that continues to raise the next generation of Afghan citizens and hope that one day an AFCECO child will lead a peaceful and prosperous Afghanistan.

Note: This story was written by Terry Cardwell in support of AFCECO for #MyGivingStory contest in 2016, which won the first place and earned AFCECO a $10K Prize.


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    Please consider purchasing one of these very expressive and unique works of art produced by our very own students from the orphanages. You can also make a donation to the Art Program.


    Sports have become a major element to our children’s program. For our Girl’s Football Team, we have a trainer from the Afghan national soccer team working with our students at the American University field.


    For 13 years children coming from poverty and violence have lived together in orphanages that are bastions of true democracy, places where everyone is equal.


    Our girls at orphanage express themselves by practicing dance, an art that is still prohibited by societal norms in Afghanistan. Our children practice Attan, Afghan traditional dance, as well as ballet, western classical dance.

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